Just call me "Chuck"

Real life Good Luck Chuck? If theres a close thing to a real life Good Luck Chuck, im probably the living proof. For those of you that havent seen the flick, The story follows Dr. Charlie Logan (played by Dane Cook). He is incapable of telling someone he loves them, but that’s not his only or major affliction. Charlie is cursed. When he gets with a woman, the very next man she dates, will be the man of her dreams.

The men that made me feel like Heather again, An upbeat fun loving girl that felt silly and sexy and alive as opposed to what I really felt like the pony tail mom in sweats with no sleep and no life!

I have been divorced for 3.. almost 4 years now and this "curse" has come to be true...The five men that will prove my theory are as followed...


[The High School Sweetheart] Most of you know after my divorce with my highschool sweetheart he remarried just 8 short months later. Im not going to touch on this topic because it was my first real heartbreak and every girl knows that thats something you keep to yourself but, I will say point *one* proven.

[The One that got away] At times we all think about that “one true love that got away”. We ask for some explanation to why but the truth is sometimes we never find the answer. This man will always hold a special place close to my heart. The many years we have spent being at each others side figuring life out and never being too far away to fix each other will always leave me grateful. He is now a wonderful father and is in a loving committed relationship. Point *two* proven.

[The Bad Boy] Oh yes I have dated all kinds friends :-) Some of the most unforgettable and crazy nights were spent with this man. After all these years he makes me smile like no person ever has. The fearless, goofy, quick witted boy (that made me feel like I could do no wrong in his eyes ) turned into a man and got married after our relationship. He is now divorced and I still see him around from time to time. Point *three* proven.

[The Country Cutie] Have you ever met someone you could just be comfortable with in any situation? This man had the ability to make me feel at home anywhere we were. In a world where every one is so fast paced he knew how to slow time and make our hours together fun and perfect... It did not matter if we were out at a fancy resturant or backroading and drinking beer there is something bout a country man that makes a girl feel like everything is right in her world.(Am I right ladies??) We shared so many great friends and great memories but unfortunately a lot of limitations. He is still a good friend and is in a committed relationship. Point *four* proven.


[The Best of me]It took me a long while to let go of this one probably because my whole being was so consumed by the thought of him. It was like I was drugged. My once broken heart was very much in love with him to the point that I became weak and vulnerable once again. I didn’t feel like being loved at the time and I wasn't looking for something... but he found me. This amazing man turned my world around and the same man turned my world upside down. He deserves a great thanks for making me feel real love again but as fate would have it this love ended. He is now married and hopefully very happy. Point *five* proven.



To the man who broke my heart: don’t worry because it doesn’t beat for you anymore.
To the man who fed me while bruising my dignity: I am still alive and kicking.
To the men who shared glory with me: I can't remember your names anymore ??
To the men who brought me tears: I am laughing more often now.
To the men who disappointed me: I am full of hope now.
To the man who left me hopeless: It didn't last long.. I have more hopes and dreams than you would have ever imagined!
To the men who promised me the fairytale and took it back: Keep em !! "Cinderella believed in doing something with her dreams. She did it right.. When Prince Charming didn't come along, she went over to the palace and got him herself."

So see the curse lives on in me and yes there are many friends that call me "Chuck" so until the day that I meet him, the one who will break the curse I will smile and laugh (mostly laugh) and remember the boys/men who shaped me into the Chuck that I am today and to the future men in my life... Good Luck !